About Me

I will never tell you to distrust your partner.
I will never tell you that marriage is a trap or divorce is inevitable.

What I will tell you is this:

Preparation is not pessimism.
Clarity is not coldness.
Knowing where you stand is not the same as standing alone.

You can love deeply and still protect yourself.
You can be fully committed and still ask hard questions.
You can build a beautiful future and understand exactly what you’re building it on.

I started this work because I believed in love.
I continue this work because I believe in you in your ability to walk into any room, any conversation, any life transition with your eyes wide open.